When
I completed graduate school, the contract for the job I’d had for the previous
two years also ended. I worked for the next year at the seminary (yes, seminary—long
story) I had attended. I worked in public relations developing brochures,
writing news releases, creating displays, and making minimum wage. When I moved
on from that job, my co-workers took me for a going-away luncheon at a nearby
Chinese restaurant. At the end of the meal came the fortune cookies.
My
co-workers each gave me their fortune cookies, insisting that I would need all
the good luck and fortune I could get as I moved on to my next career. I
cracked open one cookie after another, reading each fortune as I went.
Your
road will be paved with success.
An
exciting destination awaits.
New
friends and new challenges are in your future.
Miles
separate friends, but they do not end friendships.
I
was amazed that each and every fortune had special meaning to me. Sometimes I
am a hopelessly naïve Midwesterner, and this was one of those times. I didn’t
realize until the last cookie, that my co-workers had placed fortunes they had
created for me in the cookies. Then I read the last fortune—You need to get back to work if you expect
to be paid.
The
laugh was on me, but the sentiments of those fortunes lingered in my mind long
after I had moved.
Fortunes
are still important me. But now it seems many fortunes you find inside those
crunchy cookies aren’t fortunes at all. Often they are just quotes, or a
statement of fact. Every now and then, however, I find a fortune worth holding
on to. Shortly after signing my contract for COWBOY CHRISTMAS, I started saving
fortunes that I wanted to come true. My collection includes these:
Opportunity is knocking at your front
door.
Right now there’s an energy pushing you
to stay on your path.
Nothing happens unless first a dream.
A new business venture is on the
horizon.
You will soon receive an offer you
cannot refuse.
Of
course, I’ve probably thrown away four fortunes for every one I’ve kept. Who
wants to hang on to a fortune you don’t want, or hope won’t come true? But
holding on to the good ones . . . now that’s the key. A positive thought hidden
inside a fortune cookie takes on special meaning when you want that fortune to
come true. Then the forutne becomes a mantra, wish, hope, dream, goal. Once you
start thinking those positive thoughts—or “putting them out in the universe” as
my friend, Sharon, likes to say—you start acting and living in the truth of those
fortunes. What you believe, is what you become.
If
you could write a fortune today to describe the next step you want to take
along your writing path, what would you write? What would your hope, dream,
wish, or goal be? Write it down. You can even stick it inside a fortune cookie
if you want. Then start living your new fortune. And keep writing.
This is a photo of my Shrine to the Sacred and Silly
above my desk.
In the back right-hand corner you can see my
fortunes sticking out of a small, white urn.